Hello Luke I do apologise that my comments are late. As I said on Sunday, I find the "Seven Words" diagram very helpful. Which of these steps is the most intellectual, do you think? And which is the most spiritual? I do get your approach to the second part. I take the attitude that everything that has happened in my life has had a purpose and was meant to be, so I wouldn't expect to want to change anything. For myself, I did find it a useful and practical learning exercise to apply my decision-making guide to a past experience. Cheers Jeremy